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Que. Everytime I have sex with my wife, she has up to six or seven orgasms, sometimes even within half an hour. She has never slept with anyone else, so she has no past experience to go on, but her friends say they have fewer orgasms than she does. Not that I'm complaining, but is this normal? Is she oversexed?

Ans. There is nothing to worry about. All it means is that she is comfortable with herself and with you. She feels free to open up and enjoy herself, without feeling inhibited. This is most likely due to your good communication. Most Indian women complain of not having an orgasm ever. So count yourself lucky. Be happy knowing that you must be doing something right. Keep it up!

Que. Is it normal for a man to have an orgasm without an erection? I can often achieve orgasm without an erection. I have no medical conditions and have also been able to do this all my life. Is this common?

Ans. You should not worry about this. It is perfectly normal, and many men who cannot get erections are still able to ejaculate. If it makes you feel better, see a doctor to make sure everything is in order.

Que. My husband and I are trying to have a baby. We already have three boys and would like to have a girl. Are there any positions or techniques we can use to increase our odds of having a little girl? Please let me know if you know of anything we can do.

Ans. While many people believe there are tricks to determine the sex of a baby, none of these techniques have been scientifically proven. The sex of a baby is determined entirely by the man's sperm. Some sperm carries a Y chromosome, while some an X (the woman's egg is always an X). If the sperm that unites with the egg is a Y, the child will be male; if it is an X, the child will be female. It is purely chance that will determine which will reach the egg. Just keep in mind that any child can be a great gift regardless of the gender.

Que. What is priapism?

Ans. Priapism is a prolonged and painful erection of the penis, which can last for several hours up to a few days. It is caused when blood flows to the penis, but is then unable to drain back. Treatment often involves draining the penis with a needle placed on the side. Some medication acts on the blood vessels and can also be injected to help shrink the blood vessels and decrease blood flow into the penis. This condition should be treated immediately, as scars can set in if left untreated and even cause impotence.

Que. Can licking your girlfriend's bumhole be harmful?

Ans. It is possible for some infection to be passed from one person to another through oral sex, which includes licking around the anus and genital area. In addition to this, the anus is an area of the body that harbours bacteria, which can lead to transferring bowel bacteria such as Ecoli. To reduce the risk of infection, you can use a dental dam (a sheet of latex available from dental supply companies and some pharmacies) or a condom (cut open from end to tip and placed over the anus) to act as a barrier during contact between the mouth and the anus.

Que. My wife has dark hair around her nipples. Please help, I hate them.

Ans. Most women have a few hairs growing around their nipples. Usually these can be tamed by regularly plucking them out. It is best not to shave them, as this leaves a blunt hair shaft that will grow through, feeling more stubbly and appearing more noticeable.

Que. I am worried I do not squirt out as they do in porn movies. Is this abnormal?

Ans. It is worth bearing in mind that sexual behaviour tends to be exaggerated in porn movies, which could be why your ejaculations seem so different. When a man orgasms, semen shoots out of the penis in a series of quick squirts. The quantity of ejaculate produced can vary from person to person, as can the force of ejaculation. The quantity and force can also vary each time a man ejaculates.

Que. My boyfriend asks me for cleavage sex. I know what it is, but have no idea how to do it.

Ans. Cleavage sex is where the penis is placed between the breasts, and moved up and down. There is no set way to do this, although some people like to squeeze the breasts together while doing this simultaneously massage the breasts, along with the shaft and head of the penis. First of all it is important to ask yourself if this is something you feel comfortable with. It is important not to feel pressurised into doing something that you are not comfortable with or ready for. If you feel ready, then you could discuss with your partner what you would like as well as what he would like. Communication is an important part of enjoying sex.

Que. I'm 19 and I think I'm addicted to masturbation. I masturbate so much that blisters and cuts are forming on my penis. The cuts are really beginning to hurt; it's even painful to walk now. Can you help me?

Ans. Firstly, if you are in pain and are worried about your penis, then it would be a really good idea to speak to a doctor or nurse. It's important to know that anything pleasurable can become an addiction and masturbation is no different. Masturbation is completely normal and natural, but if it begins to interfere with the rest of your life and is causing you physical harm then you may find it helpful to speak to someone about this.

Que. I've heard of pre-cum but I was wondering whether it's normal to have the same clear, slightly sticky liquid coming out after ejaculation?

Ans. Semen can be thick and almost yellow or it can be thin, clear and watery and it's normal for the penis to leak some excess semen after ejaculation. If this has only started to happen recently you might want to speak to someone who is medically trained to make sure everything is okay. Unusual discharge can sometimes be a sign of a sexually transmitted infection. To reduce the risk of getting infected, always use a condom during sex.